Dating: The Answers For Men Who Want to Know How to Make Lasting Impression on a First Date

Asking her for a date:

Before you ask her out for a date, try to have make some conversation with her so you will have an opportunity to discover if you have enough in common before you decide to ask her out for a date.

When calling on the phone, don’t forget to mention the conversations you two had as this will give her the impression that you listen thus making her feel important. If you feel that that it is time to ask her out, go ahead; but not in a demanding tone or manner.

Ask when you are alone with her. Never ask a girl out on a date in front of others, like her friends because if she says no, you will both be embarrassed.

During the date:

Look good, be neat. Put extra effort to the way you look. Take the time to be well groomed, smell nice and choose your clothes well. Make a good impression, so you can charm her and she can be comfortable being with you.

Don't be late for the date. To prepare for the big day, make the necessary reservations and plans for your date. She may be impressed that you did put some effort in planning your night together.

Be polite. Be sure to make her feel special by complementing the way she looks. When seated at the table, turn your cell phone off. This will signal to her that you are very interested in spending uninterrupted time with her.

Use her name and make it a point to say her name in your conversations, so she will feel at ease and special as she knows you are aware of her.

Smile. Besides up a positive attitude, your smile is an sign that you are happy to be where you are and with her.

Have a Sense of Humor. Making a woman laugh means you have won half your battle. This means that she is having a nice time and is relaxed. She will remember this date as she had fun.

Be attentive to her. Be sure to listen to what she has to say and do not interrupt her. Always let her finish what she is saying, before you answer or reply.

Be honest. Let her get to know you by telling her what you do and what interests you. If she does not like you for who you are, then she is not worth your time. Show some interest in her also, by asking her about her work, hobbies and her interests.

Relax. Don't worry that your date is not having a good time. Keep the conversations open and ask questions. Be sincere. Enjoy her company and the evening as it may be the start of something special.

Do not pretend to be someone your are not but be yourself. Pretending to be somebody that you’re doesn't work in the long run as the truth will always come out sooner or later. It is a rewarding feeling if someone is drawn to you for who you really are.

Never compare. It is not fair to her, if you compare your date to your past girlfriend. Always keep in mind that she is a totally different person with her own personality so take the time to discover her; you might be pleased if you do.

Never tell your date about past relationships on the first date. Always keep in mind that you asked her out so you both could have fun together. She is not your therapist, so do not bring up your past relationships. Here is a woman in front of you who is interested in getting to know you better. If the relationship progresses further, there will be a time to discuss past relationships but definately not on the first date.

Enjoy yourself. Dating should be exciting and relaxing. A woman can sense if you are enjoying yourself with her or not. Don’t stress yourself by trying so hard to make it the perfect date because it won’t be. But if you both can enjoy it, it will be successful. After all, you did invite her out because you liked her in the first place, so be spontaneous and have fun.