June 25, 2007
Dating - How to Flirt Online
Online dating is an excellent way of meeting new people and expanding your dating options. For some, it is also a great way for getting back into dating again. Though online dating sites are often stereotyped as an arena for the desperate, they are actually an effective venue for singles that are interested in meeting interesting people.
Most people you meet in online dating sites are those who lead busy lives and do not have time to take part in time-demanding social activities. Others turn to online dating to widen their social horizons or simply to have a fresh start. Whatever their reasons, online dating is a proven way for social renewal.
Dating, in general and in whatever venue you choose, always goes hand in hand with flirting. For those who wonder if they can master the art of online flirting, of course you can! All you need to do is learn all about the different online flirting approaches, and you are on your way to a successful online dating experience.
Online dating is usually carried on through live chat or electronic mail. In your communications, always keep it short, simple and sweet. Stick to light-hearted and upbeat tones in your conversations. This is proven to attract online dates. Use easy to answer questions, and in return make you responses simple in your e-mails.
In writing correspondence, always use screen names. Do not abuse "emoticons" such as :). Emoticons may also be annoying when overdone or may sound too giddy or insincere.
Use humor as your ally as humor is considered by many to be sexy. Try it, but of course remember to use it in good taste and deliver with confidence; dates will definitely pick that up.
Compliment your date. Everyone likes to be complimented and the best compliments are those with the element of surprise. Keep your compliments sincere, honest, and genuine. When you receive a compliment yourself, the best response would be to simply say, "Thank You!"
A great online flirting tip is to use "enticers" in your e-mail communications. You may want to try the tried and tested pick-up lines or devise your own. Try to keep them light and inviting so as not to sound predatory. The key is to sound cute, interested and above all sincere. This will help spark interest in your emails and may get you that first date.
You may not feel comfortable at first, but remember, you’re just a name and a face and what you’re saying is typed words on a screen.
Don’t overdo it. Avoid being overly suggestive and making too many sexual comments as you may be opening yourself up to something you’re not prepared for.
So you’ve been talking online, you’re comfortable with someone and think you’re ready to meet face to face and this is the exciting part.
Filed under Dating Sites, Online Dating by Edited by Jack Strom


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