July 10, 2007

Dating - 4 Reasons To Steer Clear Of Free Dating Sites

Stay away from free dating sitesFree dating sites sound appealing because they don't cost much money to join and use their services, but it's not always the best reason to use them. Besides getting tons of unsolicited advertisements, there are several other things that can happen when you sign up with free dating sites. Below are more examples of the disadvantages of free Internet dating sites.

1. Many of these programs have extremely limited supervision and moderating. When a dating site lacks these resources then it allows the doors to become wide open to "undesirable" characters. There are many "bad people" out there who prey on taking advantage of people who are trusting and are only looking for love.

With free dating sites, there are not enough "police" to patrol the community because of a limited budget and funds, which gives these "bad people" more opportunity to invade the site. While these bad guys can also be found on paid sites, it is easier for them to slip through the cracks, mess around, and get away with it when the sites are not closely supervised as well as accept free members.

2. These sites also tend to have limited area covered in terms of where people live. Free dating sites are usually limited in their area of coverage because they are typically affiliated with local advertisers. On the other hand, if you prefer to limit your access to just the folks in your area, or if the free dating site is designed to target a specific religion, ethnicity, or other group of people, then you are probably better off joining that site.

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3. Free dating sites have far less rules and restrictions. One of the drawbacks of joining a dating site, whether it is free or paid, is that it is a relatively simple process that almost anyone who knows the basics of using a computer can sign up and become a member.

People of all ages and agendas are able to create a username and profile. Unfortunately, many of these men and women cannot be trusted. If people aren't required to pay to stay a member and if there are only minimal requirements involved, it is easier for non-serious daters and "bad people" to be able to use it for reasons different than finding a mate.

4. The features and quality of the program tends to be sub par when it comes to free dating sites. Another distinct feature of paid dating sites that is hardly found in free programs is the degree of quality of their websites and sophisticated services they provide.

While paid sites are more structured, user friendly, and can give you more details and important information about their members; free sites can be quite the opposite. In addition, free sites do not have special features like automatic matching (where the site gives you a list of all possible matches based on the criteria that you provided), instant messaging, and audio files (where you can listen to the member's recorded voice message).

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July 22, 2007

Zoltan @ 6:47 am

Just because something is free, it doesn't mean it is not good. You can make tens of thousands of dollars from memberships on a paid site, this does not mean that you use your budget wisely and act like a policeman with fake profiles. Paid sites main goal is to get many more paid members and if a member pay the monthly fee, it is hard to believe they will delete the member in question even if it is obviously a scam profile.
On my free dating website http://www.onelovenet.com we recently introduced a moderator feature and the community decides who is real and who is fake.

So, in my opinion, you can not generally say "stay away from free sites"…

May 3, 2008

Sarah Miller @ 2:26 am

While i agree to a large extent of your post, i must mention that there DO exist dating sites which are 100% yet QUALITY.

I get about 100 to 120 profiles registrations per day on my free online dating service and i end up rejecting as much as 50% of them. The reason? I place a premium on quality of dating members on my site.

I also disagree that paid dating sites offer more features than free dating sites.

You are welcome to check out my site anytime and verify the quality of members and also the features offered.

Just because you happen to be affiliate for paid dating sites, doesn't mean you should club all free dating sites as bad cuz that's far from the truth. Every rule has exceptions.

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